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Reporting & Blocking

Effective Date: 2026-07-29 Last Updated: 2026-09-25

Two different tools, two different jobs. Reporting tells us about someone so we can review them. Blocking removes someone from your experience straight away. You can do both, and for anything that worries you, please do.

Read this if nothing else: reporting someone does not hide them from you. It files them for our review. Blocking is what makes a person disappear from your experience. If you want someone gone from your view, block them - and report them too if they did something wrong.

1. Reporting

1.1 How

  • A person - the report option on their profile or in your chat with them.
  • An event - the overflow menu on the event, for a misrepresented, unsafe, or inappropriate event.
  • By email - safety@courtme.ai for anything serious, or if you cannot reach the in-app option.

Reports are confidential. We do not tell the person you reported who reported them, unless the law requires it. If we act on their account, they are told what happened, not who told us.

1.2 What to report

  • Threats, harassment, intimidation, or stalking
  • Sexual misconduct, during or after meeting
  • Discrimination or hate directed at who someone is
  • Romance scams, requests for money, financial fraud
  • Fake profiles, catfishing, impersonation
  • Anyone you believe is under 18
  • Photos or bios that break our Community Guidelines
  • Suspected trafficking, or someone you believe is being coerced
  • Repeated no-shows or a pattern of cancelled plans

1.3 What helps

Their name as it appears on courtme, roughly when it happened, and a short description. Screenshots help but we will never require them. Tell us if anyone is in immediate danger - say so in the first line and we will move first and ask questions after.

If someone is in immediate physical danger, contact your local emergency number first. We are not an emergency service.

1.4 How fast we respond

WhatTarget
Imminent threat to safety, child sexual abuse materialWithin 1 hour
Harassment, scams, sexual misconductWithin 24 hours
Community Guidelines violationsWithin 72 hours
Appeals and general questionsWithin 7 business days

1.5 What happens next

  • We confirm we have it.
  • We review the report against the account, the surrounding context, and any history - see the Moderation Policy.
  • We may act without contacting the reported person first.
  • We follow up with you on the outcome where we can. Privacy limits how much detail we can give about someone else's account.
  • A report also feeds our pattern detection, so several small reports about the same person add up even when no single one is conclusive.

1.6 What we will never ask you to do

  • Produce evidence beyond your own account of what happened
  • Confront the person, or keep talking to them
  • Explain why you do not want contact any more

2. Blocking

2.1 How

  • A person - from their profile, or from your chat with them.
  • An event - you can block an event as well as a person.

2.2 What blocking actually does

  • They cannot see you, and you cannot see them - on event lists, in search, anywhere in the app.
  • Any existing match or conversation between you is closed.
  • You will not be matched or recommended to each other again, including at a future event.
  • We do not tell them they were blocked.
  • Where tokens are in use, tokens you were holding for a date with that person are returned to you under the Token Terms.

2.3 Unblocking

Everything you have blocked, people and events, is listed in the app under Account & privacy → Blocked, and you can unblock at any time. Unblocking restores visibility. It does not bring back a match or a conversation that was closed.

2.4 Reporting is not blocking

This is the part people get wrong, so plainly:

  • Report - files the person with us for review. It does not remove them from your event list or your view, and it does not stop them appearing as a possible match.
  • Block - removes them from your experience immediately, but does not tell us anything is wrong.

For anything unsafe, do both. Blocking protects you now; reporting protects the next person.

3. Protective and restraining orders

If a court has granted you an order against another person on courtme, email safety@courtme.ai with the subject "Legal Order" and a copy of the order. We will permanently prevent any contact between the accounts and handle it confidentially and as a priority. You do not need to block them first, though you can.

4. Extra care

4.1 We do not out anyone

Sexual orientation and gender identity are treated as sensitive personal information. We never reveal them in a way that is inconsistent with our Privacy Policy, including in the course of handling a report.

4.2 If you have experienced abuse or assault

  • Priority review, usually within hours.
  • Trauma-informed handling - you will not be asked to re-tell it repeatedly.
  • Email safety@courtme.ai with "Urgent" in the subject.
  • Support-service referrals are listed in our Safety Guidelines.

5. Reports made in bad faith

We assume good faith and act on reports quickly. Deliberately false or malicious reports - using the report button as a weapon against someone you disagree with - breach our Terms of Service and can lead to action on your own account. Being wrong is fine. Lying is not.

6. Law enforcement

We comply with valid legal process and may contact law enforcement ourselves where the law requires it, including reports of child sexual abuse material to NCMEC, or where we believe there is an imminent threat to someone's life.

7. Changes

We update this policy as we learn and as the product changes. Material changes are posted here with a new effective date.

8. Contact

  • Reports and safety: safety@courtme.ai
  • Court orders: safety@courtme.ai, subject "Legal Order"
  • Appeals: appeals@courtme.ai
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